The Ethical Will App for Video

The Ethical Will App for Video

StoryCatcher® is The Ethical Will App

What’s Your Story?

 

The Ethical Will App for Video

An Ethical Will Video allows you to pass on and share your values, beliefs, life lessons and hopes. Easily create and share an Ethical Will Video using StoryCatcher’s great questions to ask in the family theme. Tap Interview Tips to see the questions.

Share: Here is an ethical will video my friend Jon and I created using S t o r y C a t c h e r | for iPhone to share a valuable life lesson with his sons, Fin and Matt. More on Ethical Wills below the video.

In my experience, the term “Ethical Will” trips people up, gets them curious and also a little confused. The way I like to explain it is this:

“A financial planner will help you arrange and organize how to pass on and preserve your material wealth, whereas an Ethical Will serves to help you arrange, organize and pass on the essence of who you are.” ~ April Bell, Personal Historian

Ethical Wills are a centuries old Jewish tradition and are a way to pass on your values, beliefs and philosophies. This can include lessons learned, hopes and even regrets. You can do it in writing, via audio or via video. The format you choose is up to you.

Here’s what excites me about video:

    • We get to see the essence of who the person is, that sparkle in her eye, the sound of his voice, her laughter and the emotion behind his spoken words.
    • With StoryCatcher, we can easily add photos from the past and also screen text to state facts to support the story, such as dates or the full names of people and places referenced
    • We meet the younger generation where they’re at
    • It’s fun and easy to share

To record and share an Ethical Will Video, tap on the “family” theme when creating a New Story and you’ll find great questions to answer or to ask an interviewee.[/caption]

What exactly is an Ethical Will Video?

When I first started capturing people’s values and stories on video in 2008, I never would have imagined that technology would evolve so quickly, allowing anyone to easily record and share life stories or ethical will video on the fly. But here we are and it’s not only possible, I’ve had the honor to co-create an iPhone app to help you do just that!

Creating your own Ethical Will Video:

If you’re the type who likes to jump in and get started right away, refining as you go, download S t o r y C a t c h e r | for iPhone in the Apple App Store and you’ll be off and running. If you’re the type who likes to research, ponder and get ultra clear before expressing yourself, I highly recommend Dr. Barry K. Baines’ book Ethical Wills: Putting Your Values On Paper.

Imagine if you had the chance to hear and experience what hopes. dreams and wisdom your great-grandfather or great-grandmother had to share with you when he or she was your age. You can contribute that, right now, for future generations by creating an ethical will video. What better gift is there than that?

Blog Post Author:

April Bell is a Professional Personal Historian and founder at Tree of Life Legacies. She has been operating her storytelling and wisdom keeping project in the San Francisco Bay Area and across the United States since 2008. April utilizes her innate skills as an active listener to connect with others and draw out their stories and authentic, heartfelt values to be preserved and shared for generations to come. Her clients include individuals, families and organizations who value the power of story. In an effort to provide the gift of video storytelling to the world at large via a simple, fun and easy to use tool, she and her business partner, iPhone app coder Urs Brauchli, released StoryCatcher® for iPhone. Available on the Apple App Store.

Live & Online Retreats

Join me in engaging retreat experiences to discover your legacy stories, one paragraph at a time. Learn more about My Life in Paragraphs.

“My Life in Paragraphs” Card Deck

My Life in Paragraphs card deck
My Life in Paragraphs card deck

Provocative Story Prompts

This legacy story card deck is designed to accompany the “My LIfe in Paragraphs” course, and was created by me, April Bell. The cards may also serve as stand-alone prompts to spark stories that have brought meaning, learning, and purpoose to you life.  Get your cards now.

StoryCatcher for iOS

Get StoryCatcher® on The Apple App Store

Easily create and share personal video stories. Your privacy is number one – once you download the app, you have 100% control over your media and data. My business partner, Urs Brauchli, and I started our co-creation of this app in 2011 to help people like you share more stories.

Family Stories: Why We Tell Them

Family Stories: Why We Tell Them

Saving Family Stories – Now and Into the Future

 

Family Stories: Why We Tell Them

family stories

What family stories will you pass on?

WHAT IF I told you you could change a child’s life by sharing your family stories?

Would it move you into action?

Would it inspire you to start documenting that which you know about your own life, and the people who came before you?

Why Would You?

Sometimes when I talk to people about life legacy storytelling, the question comes up; why should I share my family stories? As a part of our human make-up, we often don’t know or understand the value of something until it’s gone. In the instance of family stories, “too late” happens all the time. Often because a storyteller is no longer able to impart the tales they’d been spinning and telling anyone who would listen over the years. They pass away or become ill in such a way they’re no longer able to communicate.

Those precious gems that are their stories, forever lost.

Where Do You Start?

How does one go about this activity of documenting family stories? What’s the best medium? When is the best time?

I’ll tell you. Right now.

The beauty of documenting family stories to be shared now, or one day in the future, is that as our children grow and mature, they develop a listening and a context in which they hear our stories in a way they may not be available for when we ourselves are inspired to tell them!

When I was seventeen years old, my mom could have told about me the struggles of raising two kids on her own, working hard at a temporary job she was uncertain she’d have in a month, and how scary that was for her. At seventeen, I would most likely have no idea what she was talking about. No frame of reference to be able to relate to her story.

Hearing that story again, at 35, after having raised a child myself, and having experienced uncertainty in my professional life, it generates an entirely different context for my listening and a new understanding who my mom was when I was growing up. With my own maturing, I could now see how resilient and committed she was to make sure her children had what they needed to get along in this world. I can know her, love her, and admire her in a whole new light.

Getting Help

The people who hire me to help document their family stories have quite often experienced some kind of lost opportunity to record a loved ones’ stories. That original storyteller may be gone, and my client knows they may still capture and share their family stories from those still here, who are able to communicate.

Recent happiness research has proved children who know their family’s narrative are happier and more resilient than children who don’t.

We owe it to our future generations to document their family stories.

Building Foundations

Our children look to us for guidance, learning, hope and security. For the whole of their lives. As they themselves grow into adulthood, they long to know who we really were at their same age. What greater gift than to give them ourselves, to let them know us and have us, when they’re ready to know, when they are available to receive and understand all that we are always offering? To give them the support they need, when they need it most.

Your Greatest Gift

My friend Elizabeth, whom I recorded a video biography with in 2012, is further expanding her collection of stories. She has embarked on a journey called, “My Life In Paragraphs” to tell more stories, on at at a time.

You might consider using the video storytelling app StoryCatcher®, and create a collection of vignette videos telling about your experiences, lessons, values, and hopes. You may feel most comfortable expressing yourself in writing or via an audio only format, which can easily be done any time, any where using a smart phone.

Share when you’re inspired to. Create a little collection, allow it to grow into a big one. Do it on your own or consult a professional for help and guidance.

It’s the greatest gift you will ever leave.

I promise you that.

Live & Online Retreats

Join me in engaging retreat experiences to discover your legacy stories, one paragraph at a time. Learn more about My Life in Paragraphs.

“My Life in Paragraphs” Card Deck

My Life in Paragraphs card deck
My Life in Paragraphs card deck

Provocative Story Prompts

This legacy story card deck is designed to accompany the “My LIfe in Paragraphs” course, and was created by me, April Bell. The cards may also serve as stand-alone prompts to spark stories that have brought meaning, learning, and purpoose to you life.  Get your cards now.

StoryCatcher for iOS

Get StoryCatcher® on The Apple App Store

Easily create and share personal video stories. Your privacy is number one – once you download the app, you have 100% control over your media and data. My business partner, Urs Brauchli, and I started our co-creation of this app in 2011 to help people like you share more stories.

Ancestor Effect

Ancestor Effect

Why Your Stories Matter

“So even if we don’t perceive to like our ancestors, thinking about them still leads to a mental state that boosts intellectual performance and decision-making.”

Apparently, just thinking about our ancestors — ancient to the not so distant — helps us be better problem solvers and live better lives. I just read this most fascinating article about the value of knowing our family’s narrative.

“Recently, a clinical study reported that thinking positively about our family roots boosts emotional confidence and even intelligence.”

Are you a good ancestor? Have you started to record your stories?

“…keep your ancestors close at hand. Every day, think about the people who are responsible for putting you on the planet. Consider their hard work throughout the ages, their resilience in tough times, and their ingenuity.”

Alas, the full article by “Amy Bruckner & The Dream Tribe” is no longer alive on the web.  All the same, consider being a good ancestor by recording and sharing a story from your own family’s history!

As always, I’d be pleased and honored to help, be it in a course I teach or by interviewing you or your loved ones to create an heirloom gift for today, and to pass on to your future generations.

StoryCatcher® for iPhone makes it easy to get started making short video stories if you’re interested in a full “do it yourself” experience. Your loved ones will cherish these stories all time. Plus, you’ll be helping them become smarter and more effective in the process! You can download the app on the Apple App Store.


Blog Post Author:

April Bell is a Professional Personal Historian and founder at Tree of Life Legacies. She has been operating her Personal History Film business in the San Francisco Bay Area and across the United States since 2008. April utilizes her innate skills as an active listener to connect with others and draw out their stories and authentic, heartfelt values to be preserved and shared for generations to come. Her clients include individuals, families and organizations who value the power of story. In an effort to provide the gift of video storytelling to the world at large via a simple, fun and easy to use tool she and her business partner, iPhone app coder Urs Brauchli, released StoryCatcher® for iPhone on The Apple App Store.

“My Life in Paragraphs” Card Deck

My Life in Paragraphs card deck
My Life in Paragraphs card deck

Provocative Story Prompts

This legacy story card deck is designed to accompany the “My LIfe in Paragraphs” course, and was created by me, April Bell. The cards may also serve as stand-alone prompts to spark stories that have brought meaning, learning, and purpoose to you life.  Get your cards now.

StoryCatcher for iOS

Get StoryCatcher® on The Apple App Store

Easily create and share personal video stories. Your privacy is number one – once you download the app, you have 100% control over your media and data. My business partner, Urs Brauchli, and I started our co-creation of this app in 2011 to help people like you share more stories.

“There was never yet an uninteresting life. Such a thing is an impossibility. Inside of the dullest exterior there is a drama, a comedy, and a tragedy.”

Mark Twain

The Walnut Creek Journal ~ 2014

The Walnut Creek Journal ~ 2014

Capturing Walnut Creek Memories

 

The Walnut Creek Journal ~ 2014

Walnut Creek History

Situating Walnut Creek native, Dr. Bud Rotermund, for his interview session.

Historical Society’s Oral History Project To Reflect Last 100 Years

by Deborah Burstyn – Correspondent
Orignally Published in The Walnut Creek Journal on August 8, 2014

WALNUT CREEK, CA — Fifty years from now, when this city celebrates its 150th anniversary, no one will need to interview today’s young people about what it was like to grow up in Walnut Creek. Their bazillions of Facebook posts, Tweets, Instagram pics and Vine videos will tell everyone more than they want to know. But for people who grew up and lived in Walnut Creek over the previous decades, there was no social media that lives forever on the Internet.

That’s why to help commemorate Walnut Creek’s 100th anniversary, the Walnut Creek Historical Society commissioned professional videographer April Bell to film interviews with longtime Walnut Creek residents and capture their memories for posterity for an oral history project. “Since 2012, we’ve interviewed 18 people. We will be interviewing 10 more longtime or past Walnut Creek residents in September,” said Bell, a Walnut Creek townie herself. “We’ve interviewed people from all walks of life, from civic leaders, longtime business owners to regular people who remember what it was like growing up in Walnut Creek when it was a town where everyone knew who you were and what you were up to.” According to Bell, five edited videos have been posted on the WCHS website (under the “History” tab) for the community to enjoy and learn about the town’s past. All interviews are archived via on DVD for viewing in the WCHS History Room. Each interviewee received a keepsake DVD of their personal interview to share with friends and family, and the videos have been transcribed and laid out into a printed book for the historical society archives.

Although each subject was interviewed for 45 minutes, many of the videos posted on the historical society’s website are edited clips of one to three minutes. These highlight a specific aspect of Walnut Creek history as recollected by the interviewee. One of the most moving is a remembrance of Walnut Creek townspeople stopping whatever they were doing to cheer on truckloads of troops on their way to World War II from Camp Stoneman in Pittsburg. “The trucks loaded with men came through Walnut Creek,” recalls lifelong resident Jo Ann Hanna, owner of JoAnn’s dress shop, in a two-minute clip. “I don’t know how we knew but we would close the stores and all go out into the street to cheer, throw them kisses and wave them goodbye. It was heartbreaking. And yet it was just something that was part of our daily lives.” Another poignant note is the fact that several of those interviewed have since died. Primo Facchini, a longtime Walnut Creek civic booster and supporter of the Walnut Creek Historical Society, died recently; his interview can be seen on the WCHS website.

The project was not as fortunate with Audrey Veregge. A WCHS member who along with Sheila Rogstad and Judie Hockel initiated the oral history project, she developed laryngitis on the day she was scheduled to be interviewed. She died shortly thereafter of cancer. Bell, who graduated from Las Lomas High School in 1986, has seen a lot of changes in Walnut Creek, even over her lifetime. That imbued her with a sense of urgency about capturing her hometown’s history. “Walnut Creek is so progressive that its history is easily lost,” notes Bell, who has her own company, Tree of Life Legacies, that helps people create their life histories on video. Bell and the Historical Society currently are looking for more interviewees. Are you or is someone you know a longtime Walnut Creek resident who is a good storyteller? If so, call the WCHS office at 925-935-7871 and leave a message with your name, phone number and the name of whomever you suggest. A volunteer will contact you. Bell encourages people to get interviewed. “A lot of people say I will do it later. Do it now. Tomorrow isn’t promised. You don’t have to be old. It’s OK to be interviewed while you are still young.”

Live & Online Retreats

Join me in engaging retreat experiences to discover your legacy stories, one paragraph at a time. Learn more about My Life in Paragraphs.

“My Life in Paragraphs” Card Deck

My Life in Paragraphs card deck
My Life in Paragraphs card deck

Provocative Story Prompts

This legacy story card deck is designed to accompany the “My LIfe in Paragraphs” course, and was created by me, April Bell. The cards may also serve as stand-alone prompts to spark stories that have brought meaning, learning, and purpose to you life.  Get your cards now.

StoryCatcher for iOS

Get StoryCatcher® on The Apple App Store

Easily create and share personal video stories. Your privacy is number one – once you download the app, you have 100% control over your media and data. My business partner, Urs Brauchli, and I started our co-creation of this app in 2011 to help people like you share more stories.

Their Forgotten Childhood Memories

Their Forgotten Childhood Memories

The Forgotten Childhood

The Phenomenon of Childhood Amnesia

 

Create A Gift To Their Future-Self

Haven’t you, like me, wondered why most of us don’t remember anything prior to age 3? Well, it turns out, we DO have memories prior to age 3, however, those memories are almost completely forgotten somewhere between the ages of 6 and 9. How fun would it be to record our kids’ memories of these years before they forget them? I recently read a fascinating story on NPR about childhood amnesia.

“Another powerful determinant of whether an early memory sticks is whether a child fashions it into a good story, with a time and place and a coherent sequence of events, (University Research Professor Carole) Peterson says. ‘Those are the kinds of memories that are going to last.'”

S t o r y C a t c h e r | for iPhone is the perfect tool to fashion such a story. Record your child on video, sharing her memories in her own words. Once you’ve filmed her story, add screen text and photos to help round it out. Easily share with family and friends now, plus save it to enjoy for years to come.

Imagine what fun it will be for your child to see himself recollecting his life stories from times that would otherwise be forgotten.

StoryCatcher

You can download StoryCatcher® for iPhone now by clicking the image above!

“For a long time, scientists thought childhood amnesia occurred because the brains of young children simply couldn’t form lasting memories of specific events. Then, in the 1980s, (Patricia) Bauer (a professor of psychology at Emory University) and other researchers began testing the memories of children as young as 9 months old, in some cases using gestures and objects instead of words.

“At age 3, the children were all recorded speaking with a parent about recent events, like visiting an amusement park or a visit from a relative. Then as the kids got older, the researchers checked to see how much they remembered.

“And they found that children as old as 7 could still recall more than 60 percent of those early events, while children who were 8 or 9 recalled less than 40 percent. ‘What we observed was actually the onset of childhood amnesia,’ Bauer says.”

Listen to the full story here: The Forgotten Childhood: Why Early Memories Fade


Blog Post Author:

April Bell is a Professional Personal Historian and founder at Tree of Life Legacies. She has been operating her Personal History Film business in the San Francisco Bay Area and across the United States since 2008. April utilizes her innate skills as an active listener to connect with others and draw out their stories and authentic, heartfelt values to be preserved and shared for generations to come. Her clients include individuals, families and organizations who value the power of story. In an effort to provide the gift of video storytelling to the world at large via a simple, fun and easy to use tool she and her business partner, iPhone app coder Urs Brauchli, released StoryCatcher® for iPhone in the Fall of 2013.

Live & Online Retreats

Join me in engaging retreat experiences to discover your legacy stories, one paragraph at a time. Learn more about My Life in Paragraphs.

“My Life in Paragraphs” Card Deck

My Life in Paragraphs card deck
My Life in Paragraphs card deck

Provocative Story Prompts

This legacy story card deck is designed to accompany the “My LIfe in Paragraphs” course, and was created by me, April Bell. The cards may also serve as stand-alone prompts to spark stories that have brought meaning, learning, and purpose to you life.  Get your cards now.

StoryCatcher for iOS

Get StoryCatcher® on The Apple App Store

Easily create and share personal video stories. Your privacy is number one – once you download the app, you have 100% control over your media and data. My business partner, Urs Brauchli, and I started our co-creation of this app in 2011 to help people like you share more stories.

“There was never yet an uninteresting life. Such a thing is an impossibility. Inside of the dullest exterior there is a drama, a comedy, and a tragedy.”

Mark Twain

Stories by April Bell

Stories by April Bell

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